Gabrielle is writing an illustrated guide book on sex. At a book signing, she meets Saul, an established heterosexual male writer. She both loves and hates his work which has seeped into her secular Jewish life from childhood. The more Gabrielle tells him about her book the more he wants to know about her life; the relationship with her younger girlfriend Olivia and her determination to “stop using my penis in sex”. As her book takes form their friendship is tested as is Gabrielle’s relationship with Olivia. Are they meant to be together? What happens when you give yourself away?